Emma grew up in a close knit European family and didn’t have any exposure to excessive drinkers. She met her husband ad they had a good social life and were a happy family until his drinking progressed slowly. It became a serious problem after 20 years and Emma was working two jobs to keep the family going. Emma’s friend suggested that she go to Al-Anon Family Groups to get some help and she eventually got the courage to leave the marriage as her husband was unwilling to face his alcoholism.

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Linn grew up with an alcoholic father, although she thought that was normal as most kids’ parents drank a lot and there was plenty of family violence in the neighbourhood. Her mum protected her from her father but she was expected to keep quiet and not tell anyone. Linn’s mum also ensured that she had a good education and this enabled her to leave the family home in her late teens. Only after her mum and dad died Linn realize that alcoholism the family disease had left her angry and ill prepared for life. At the recommendation of a psychologist she went to Al-Anon and was able to understand why she was so fearful and anxious.

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If someone else's drinking is causing you a problem then you can phone the Al-Anon Family Groups helpline on 1300 252 666 or go online at www.al-anon.org.au.